Monday, May 18, 2009

Why Love Hurts?

Love has never been defined and never will be. We read novels about love without limitations, watch movies about it on the big screen or TV, and that we can live happily ever after, but it's not the real life. The fact of the matter is, our expectations are sometimes too high and the poor mate we choose can't humanly live up to what our expectations are. The word "grow up" is the key to this problem. All couples have disagreements, lose their temper every so often, feel like they want to quit in the relationship and move on. When we are young, love can be so magical or hurt to the very core of a person's being and they feel like their life is over. It is because of inexperience and, in youth one is learning. Every heartbreak or every slight from another person you love helps you to become stronger and is a learning path as to what you really do want in a lifetime partner. It 'preps' you for that one true love that I can promise you will meet in the future. It's a tough road sometimes, but we all have our disappointments and lost loves, but manage to live and forge on still in the end. When you truly find love, you never lose it. You will realize the guys or girls you 'thought' you loved really wasn't love at all.

Why drive a car if you can get into a car crash? Why walk on the street when you can get mugged? Why eat when you can get choked? I think you get my point. Life is one big risk, as so is love. If you don't take the risk you'll never know. Taking the risk in return you can either be loved or heart broken. But I can guarantee you something, whether you are loved or heart broken, you will always gain something, wisdom and experience. You can learn from your heart aches to benefit your next relationship to make the love of your life. But if you never try at love because you are scared of being hurt, you'll never know if you could feel the best you have ever felt in your life. I think never trying at love is the biggest pain of all. You are depriving yourself of opportunity. Besides, a lot of us wouldn't be here if everyone didn't love because it hurts too much. Life goes on, and love will conquer all. Because love doesn't have to hurt! When there is love, there is always hope. Maybe this time love hurts, but next time it doesn't have to. If you choose not to love, then you also choose not to be loved. Don't you want to be loved?

1 comment:

  1. a nice post which really gv a lot of thought....